Just like that timeless karaoke favorite, “Summer Nights,” it seems that the summer fling has become a rite of passage for some of us, either just because we are on vacation, or taking a vacation at home away from, well hell, ourselves...,LOL. Anything is possible when your single and bored, lets not forget about the sun shining and love-starved single people in Seattle, that has endured a long winter, (hell it took part of our summer)and need to come out to play. While a summer fling can be a lot of fun, things also have the potential to get complicated. Everything may seem carefree at the start, but emotions are tricky and people can easily get hurt, rather from clashing intentions or becoming attached too freaking quickly. I can’t stress enough how important communication is within a fling, quickie, or relationship, especially when you are starting a new "thing" or situation. It may seem like you can read each other’s minds, but don’t assume that your partner knows what you are looking for (or that you know what your partner is looking for, for that matter). One of you may just be looking for fun, while the other may be looking for a long-term relationship. Avoid an unnecessarily painful breakup by being up-front about your intentions with your summer "fling", or whatever "ville" you find yourself venturing into ;)......
You know what is so profound to me???? Although people seem to underastand their own infidelity/or indiscretion, they still seem to have an un-openess to discussing with a potential "fling" that they may just want to make "whoopi";)... "Potentials", "flings", do not normally, openlly discuss their feelings and are rarely emotionally open unless they are extremely comfortable with you; "lovers", or "potentials" are inherently closed in their feelings to maintain their own belief of control. I mean, even if you think you have an "understanding" with a person, and you seem to agree to to be "casual", "lovers", or "potentials" can tend to be territorial and jealous; this is not to be confused with being suspicious of their "partners". The feelings tend to be so deep that if their "potential", "lover", or "partner" shows any attention to another person, they get a slight uneasy feelings; lol,this is just totally a biological instinct. But its funny how if you are involved with them and you start talking to another person and in any way say nice things, or touch them or they touch you anywhere, the instinct will kick in; they may not punch the other person, but they will no longer be in a good mood; they will go from "I love you so much" to "I wish I were home watching TV and not dealing with this", ask me how I know ;)....
Just a random thought.... Do you think that lovers'tend' to call you "hot" if they are thinking of you "only" sexually, and/but they will call you "sexy", "beautiful", "gorgeous", or "pretty" if they have more "INNOCENT" intentions. This isn't a universal absolute, however; in fact, this applies very little, but it can seem like an extra hint. anyway, just life according to "SoRareInSeattle", for whatever it is worth ;)
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