Can We Be FWB's and Thats It?

I believe, "Life According to SoRare", that EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you know, you fell in love with a person. You
anticipate their call, want their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with this person isn't hard. In fact, it can seem to be a ompletely spontaneous experience, almost effortless. YOU DON'T have to DO anything!!! So I guess that's why it's called "FALLING" in love - because it happens TO YOU! Question? Why do people in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet!" Let's Just think about the imagery of that expression for just a moment, shall we.... This expression, in itself, implies that they were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO THEM....Hmmmm,Fact or Fiction? Well, I don't know about being swept off my feet,,,but I do know that falling in love is easy and thats just because it is a totally passive and spontaneous experience. No complaints from me here, I love love ;)....

But what about embarking on a sexual relationship with no emotional attachment, is it possible? Can two consenting adults really have a sexual relationship with no emotional involvement? I think anything is possible, and in some situations it can be the only probable recourse :) Even tho I believe that once two people have sex, there is an unexplainable bond that is created, that seem to pull them together, whether they want it to happen or NOT. I don't believe that this bond means that they are instantly in love just because they had sex, it just changes the relationship they had before, sometimes for the better ;), sometimes not:( I mean "I" enjoy hanging out with someone that is so undemanding and uncomplicated, but even this can turn around and bite you on the ass, for I still find myself relying on this "arrangement", and even this leads to involvement!!! Truely lifes little LOL, along with the endless obsession with how women are going to die alone because they have brains and casual sex has truly become the gift that keeps on giving as well..;)..I say all this too say,,,I spent 3.5 hours on the phone with Jesse last night, the NOLONGER married Jesse.Hmmmm...Do I Notice a DIFFERERNCE???? And then there is SammySmith. LOL, I am feeling Cynicle.....What does anyone really want???LOL